Novices and Veterans: Divergent Conclusions Regarding the Applicability of Stoic Principles
It was through dabbling in stoicism that I gained a better understanding of how I, like so many others, have a hard time excusing other people's bad behavior. Another thing, that I will later in this post relate to this understanding of my tendency, that became apparent to me after joining a stoicism study group was the pattern of divergence in the conclusions formed by novice versus veteran practitioners of this branch of philosophy. I think that while both the approaches of the novice and the veteran help preserve one's tranquility, only the veteran’s approach leads to practical wisdom beyond mere inner peace.
Now, for purposes of only this post, allow me to make, and use as a basis for further reasoning, the grossly oversimplified claim that stoicism teaches extending the benefit of the doubt to other people. For example, if someone has broken a previously-made promise or commitment, stoicism would advocate contemplating the possibility of unforeseen circumstances outside of one's counterpart’s calculation and control that would have made it untenably difficult, if not impossible, for them to uphold their promise or commitment. This empathetic, albeit contrived, approach is certainly, and without question, a better alternative to anger. This contrivance would not only allow one to retain their tranquility but it would also allow one the possibility to subsequently interact and deal with their counterpart in a manner that would be productive, wise, and just.
With respect to this extension of the benefit of the doubt, I have noticed the pattern amongst novices to favor an overextension of the benefit of the doubt. For example, they are generally amenable to extending their counterpart the benefit of the doubt even in the event of multiple infractions. Veterans, on the other hand, are generally not amenable to extending their counterpart the benefit of the doubt in the event of multiple infractions. Similar to novices, veterans do not lose their composure. However, unlike novices, their recommendations are suggestive that they are at peace in recognizing the flaws of their counterpart, the challenges that their counterpart’s flaws introduce to the dynamic of dealing with them, and how the dynamic ought to be shaped (or completely forgone) in order to maximize one's utility, while simultaneously minimizing one's agitation or disappointment, from dealing with their counterpart.
Though the novice’s way may help one maintain their tranquility—at least for the short, if not the long, term—I do not believe it is done so in a healthy way. I believe that they espouse a misguided approach due to an incomplete philosophical understanding that would ultimately do them a disservice. Their philosophy renders them too readily acceptable of ill treatment because they inadvertently encourage their counterpart’s bad behavior such that their counterpart will lose respect for them. In my opinion, there is no doubt that it is the veteran’s way that, by excluding the element of denial and/or delusion from one’s thought process, allows one to chart a course for oneself that allows one to deal with the unprincipled and inconsiderate in a manner that is virtuous, wise, and just.
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